When it comes to weddings, all eyes may traditionally be on the bride — but modern grooms are stepping up their style game, and rightly so. From classic tailoring to sustainable shoe choices, today’s groom is embracing fashion with individuality and purpose. If you’re planning your big day (or helping someone who is), this style guide will walk you through key clothing options for grooms, with inspiration from one of the most elegant weddings we’ve seen — beautifully captured by the talented Fiona Kelly Photography.
Photo by Fiona Kelly Photography
1. The Modern Groom: Style with Substance
Gone are the days when a morning suit was the only option for grooms. Today, men have an incredible range of choices — from tailored navy suits and velvet blazers to contemporary tuxedos with contrast lapels. What matters most is expressing your personal style while complementing your partner’s look and the overall wedding vibe.
When it comes to choosing your wedding attire, start with the venue and vibe. Are you having a black-tie affair or a relaxed garden wedding? The setting will help steer your style decisions.
- Classic Suit or Tuxedo: For formal weddings, a tailored tuxedo or three-piece suit is always a winner. Opt for midnight blue or deep charcoal if black feels too stark.
- Modern Suiting: Prefer something more contemporary? Slim-fit suits in earthy tones like olive, stone, or even soft blush can be incredibly stylish for spring and summer weddings.
- Cultural or Themed Attire: Embracing traditional garments or theme-based dress codes can be meaningful and memorable. Just make sure they fit well — tailoring is everything.
Bonus tip: Avoid renting if possible. A suit that’s been altered to your proportions will always look and feel better, especially under the camera’s unforgiving eye.
2. Step Up: Wedding Shoes That Make an Impression
Let’s talk shoes. One of the most overlooked but essential parts of the groom’s outfit. Whether you’re dancing into the night or posing for those priceless portraits, your wedding shoes need to look sharp and feel comfortable.
Your shoes do more than complete the look — they support you through every step (literally) of your big day. Whether it’s walking down the aisle, dancing into the night, or posing for portraits, uncomfortable or poorly chosen footwear can spoil the vibe.
- Go for Quality Leather: Classic Oxford or Derby shoes in polished leather are safe and stylish bets. Brown works wonderfully for daytime weddings, while black remains timeless.
- Break Them In: Wear them around the house in the weeks leading up to your wedding. The last thing you want is to nurse blisters during the reception.
- Socks Matter Too: Consider socks in bold colours or prints for a hidden splash of personality — and a great detail shot for your photographer.
For a sustainable twist, consider leather-alternative or responsibly sourced leather options that still deliver polish and durability. Our tan brogue shoes are a best-selling favourite for a reason — smart, stylish, and consciously made.
3. Photograph-Ready Style Tips
You’ll look back on your wedding photos for a lifetime — so you want to feel like the best version of yourself. Here are some styling tricks that work especially well on camera:
- Avoid shiny fabrics that reflect light awkwardly
- Stick to tailored fits (not too tight, not too loose)
- Brown shoes with a navy suit = timeless win
- Pocket squares and tie bars elevate instantly
- Stay true to your personality — it shows
If you’re working with a pro photographer, trust their direction. They’ll help you relax and capture your best angles, candidly and naturally.
4. Make It Personal
The best style is personal. Add something meaningful — cufflinks passed down, a favourite scent, or even a surprise sock pattern. These details bring comfort and confidence, and they often become your favourite wedding-day memories.
You’re not dressing for a magazine spread (though you’ll look like you belong in one) — you’re dressing for a once-in-a-lifetime moment with the people you love most.
Final Thought
Your wedding day is a celebration — let your outfit celebrate you. Whether you opt for refined tradition or bold modernity, own your look from head to toe. With the right shoes and a confident smile, you’re ready to walk into this next chapter in style.